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i guess because we are toma fans, maybe some of us are more attracted to japanese guys? lol. i guess it might be cool to have a japanese boyfriend... i mean, i know i have zero chance with toma, but if i could have a japanese boyfriend, it would be really nice, since i'm so into japanese stuff. and he could teach me some japanese too, and we could do japanese-ish stuff together! lol. ideally, he would be a japanese guy, but he lives in my city/state (i'm in the usa). not like an exchange student or someone who is only here temporarily and going back to japan later. so that there's not too much cultural difference between us (don't want a guy that grew up in japan and is really traditional or something...) and of course, don't have to deal with a long distance relationship!
i realize that not everyone lives in an area where there are japanese people, but if you did, would you want a japanese boyfriend, or would you still rather date someone with with your same nationality/race/etc.? i know things might get complicated when considering the cultural differences, language difference (i guess some ppl prefer talking 2 their boyf in their native language), and whether or not your/his parents would be ok with it, but still... (i'm assuming that most of us here are not japanese and do not live in japan, but skip all this if you are japanese/in japan. xD)
i guess because we are toma fans, maybe some of us are more attracted to japanese guys? lol. i guess it might be cool to have a japanese boyfriend... i mean, i know i have zero chance with toma, but if i could have a japanese boyfriend, it would be really nice, since i'm so into japanese stuff. and he could teach me some japanese too, and we could do japanese-ish stuff together! lol. ideally, he would be a japanese guy, but he lives in my city/state (i'm in the usa). not like an exchange student or someone who is only here temporarily and going back to japan later. so that there's not too much cultural difference between us (don't want a guy that grew up in japan and is really traditional or something...) and of course, don't have to deal with a long distance relationship!
i realize that not everyone lives in an area where there are japanese people, but if you did, would you want a japanese boyfriend, or would you still rather date someone with with your same nationality/race/etc.? i know things might get complicated when considering the cultural differences, language difference (i guess some ppl prefer talking 2 their boyf in their native language), and whether or not your/his parents would be ok with it, but still... (i'm assuming that most of us here are not japanese and do not live in japan, but skip all this if you are japanese/in japan. xD)
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Date: 2012-10-08 08:33 pm (UTC)i came up with this poll cuz i was at book-off (and i've been single for months now =T) and there was this kinda cute guy (wears glasses + tall! ^.^) that worked there, and his name tag said "Thomas". but then i heard 1 of the ladies working there speaking to him in japanese and calling him "Toma". it made me think how cool it would be to have a japanese boyf named toma!! xD i realize this sounds bad, because it's like he would just a replacement for toma. and it makes me think of our discussion in the previous poll, the problems that come with dating someone that looks like/reminds u of toma. but still...xD it's nice 2 think about! lol...
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Date: 2012-10-09 07:23 am (UTC)ps...but I do not know if it will change when someday Toma look alike suddenly appear in my life :p
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Date: 2012-10-11 02:12 pm (UTC)culture-religion ehehe..
but I really wanna be friend with Japanese..
I did notice Japanese Tourist in my country.. and u know what...
I almost want to said.. can you send my regard to Ikuta Toma xD
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Date: 2012-10-12 11:33 pm (UTC)yes, i think having a japanese friend would be awesome too!
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Date: 2012-10-13 02:52 am (UTC)hai.. and sometimes I keep peeking them...
try to listen every single word.. when they're about to chat with each other-
hahaha.. am I desperate xD
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Date: 2012-10-13 08:57 pm (UTC)i like listening to their conversations too. sometimes i can understand a few words, and it makes me happy! hehe...
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Date: 2012-10-12 03:32 pm (UTC)and i will be able to learn jap and flail together xDD
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Date: 2012-10-12 11:35 pm (UTC)