i don't think toma is the type of person to act rashly, and he cares very much about his career and works hard for it. i don't think he would do anything to jeopardize it. i'm not even sure he allows himself to date, he just seems like that type. if he does, he's really, REALLY good at keeping quiet.

i go back and forth... i DO think of myself as a girlfriend/wife, if i'm being honest with myself. buuuuuut, who am i kidding, huh? lol. i'm already with someone i love, so out of respect for him, i voted "friend" lol. but he knows exactly how i feel about toma, too, hahahahaha.